Some people tends to re-enter your life like nothing happened before… As if they were innocent for all the things that they made you face..
When people see that you are happy without them their ego is damaged and they tend to return back to you to emotionally dictate you so that they can satisfy their ego.
When they see you are beginning to move on and doing a lot better without them their instincts starts to reach out fear as it will be harder for them to be in your life once you have completely move on.
Testing you how easily it will be for them to leave and re-enter in your smooth life. Once people know how easy it is for them to hurt you, to disrespect you, neglect you, leave you and return back to you when you are about to recover from past.
The more you gove chances to that person, the more it will be harder to move on..
Or either they are bored with the people they left you for. People usually use relationships as ownership.
Only last reason people return they regret loosing you but one should remember what pain they have went through when the person left leaving you at your worst. Once you allow that person to re-enter it will be inviting all the pain and grief you went through..
Every one deserves happiness but not based on pain. And one should stay away from uncertain relationships.
Stay happy 😁
My Verselets 
Awesomely articulated sweetheart, where were you lost 😇🧡💛
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Thank you for lovely compliment
I am damn busy with university work load 😐
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💜 It is very important to remember that it is ourselves that allowed the abuse in the first place EveryOne; if We Don’t Admit this then it is almost impossible to set boundaries and assert them
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100% correct that the abuse we face is result of our work which we do without setting boundaries
Thanks a lot for reading
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Aparna,
This is a classic post. I can understand since i have passed through difficult periods.
Dealing with a betrayer who comes back into our life and tries to behave as they did before can be a challenging and complex situation. It is important to consider the nature of the betrayal and the reasons for their return before deciding how to proceed.
As you said ://Testing you how easily it will be for them to leave and re-enter in your smooth life.//, In this context I will say: We must be cautious. But how to tackle, when life partners do these.
If the betrayal was severe and has caused significant harm, it may be difficult to rebuild trust and move forward in the relationship. In such cases, it may be best to take some time to reflect on our own feelings and needs, and to set clear boundaries and expectations for how we want to be treated moving forward.
Again, then it becomes impossible too.
Excellent write-up.
Best wishes.
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Thanks a lot Sir you gave a detailed over view of my post 😅🤩
I truly agree with the thing that we must take some time to reflect on our own feelings and needs, and to set clear boundaries and expectations for how we want to be treated moving forward. And going back to one who betrayed can be harmful for mental peace..
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