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FRIENDS TO STRANGERS

Do you know what’s the most painful thing? Loosing a friend, without actually knowing the reason why you lost them.

Path that a person takes to build a new relationship with a new person, and slowly getting attached to them, becoming close friends. It takes a lot of time, care, love, trust and unspoken bond to develop a friendly relation between those two people.

When we loose some close friend the pain get multiples to the love and care we had for that person. It takes years together to move on with that particular relationship. I am one of those who used to think Friendship is a pure relationship between two souls that vibe together. But at some point of life we have to come across a point where all these kind of filmy theories fail.

Now I became an elysian firefly,
Of starless sky.
A friend became a stranger,
Leaving me at the time of danger.
I will never forget the day,
But it was all a play.
When you treated me as an important person,
While planning a treason.
I hid my pain behind my smile,
It took a while.
I was wondering why I am fading, 
I realized it was you who was intoxicating.
You were a shoe that didn't fit,
And I believe it's time for me to quit.
There was a point where I cried,
Leaving me terrified.
Reason was I didn't know what to do,
I don't have any idea why I lost you.
You changed like seasons,
Without leaving behind a reason.
Our memories are very bitter sweet,
That my heart wants that we could never meet.
A part of me thinks that we could be back together again,
But I don't wish we could be friends again.
Thank you so much for the times we were together,
That made me somewhat better.
I will keep you in my heart,
But I wish let's just stay far apart.

37 thoughts on “FRIENDS TO STRANGERS

  1. I understand you clearly….the words you have written are significantly trueπŸ‘πŸ‘

    Sometimes, we just lose friends without actually knowing what we did wrong. But in the end, I believe we don’t lose friends coz real friends are never lost, we only lose fake friends masquerading as friends πŸ™‚

    A very thought provoking postπŸ‘πŸ‘

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    1. πŸ’― Correct we only loose fake ones, true friends will always be there for us no matter what situation comes.

      Loosing Friends is hard but not knowing the reason is worst πŸ˜…
      Thanks a lot for reading my dear friend ☺️
      I am glad you liked it…

      Have a wonderful day ahead 😊

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  2. I am with you di. Let time heal the pain. This phase will go away, like any other… Please don’t let a single person affect you. I believe you are stronger than this!!πŸ€— On the positive side, that’s great that you can express yourself and write, and connect with friends. You are on a new journey now!🧑

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    1. Thanks a million Sonal for showing your support from your kind and loving words, that deeply penetrated my heart and proved that I am not alone in this.
      My True friends will always be my support ☺️

      Yeah I am grateful that I dealing this gracefully πŸ˜…
      Hope this passes soon πŸ˜ƒ

      Thanks again Sonal for reading and appreciating πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ’œπŸ§‘

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  3. Some friends will be by out dude through all the path, while others’ mission is temporary but important too. Some things ate meant to last. Others are ephemeral. That’s life. It’s hard. I’ve lost some good friends along the way too. Without any reason…so I thought.

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    1. Thanks Filipa for kind words to support me ☺️
      It’s true that we should not waste our important time on ephemeral relationships.

      It sad that you came across this situation also. It doesn’t matter we will go through this together πŸ˜ƒ
      With positive attitude πŸ€—

      Have a great day ahead 😊☺️

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  4. I can feel! In my childhood I didn’t understand what is the meaning of friend! But soon after some incidents & experience make us differ b/w true friends & classmates.. So yeah, Time teach us all πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

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  5. me and my love broke up😒😒 I was crying sooo much feeling very lonely..😊but this poem really cheered me up😊 thanks Aparna. sometimes u know being away from someone u truly cared is bad enough… the person u think is the one is maybe not, u never realise. u just get broken when someone betrays u. but its maybe for gud. thanks a lot Aparna… u taught me to move on❀️❀️❀️❀️ ‘self love is the real love’

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    1. Ohh my dear Anushka πŸ€©πŸ€—

      Thanks a million for praising alot. I am glad I was able to help you with my work in your hard times.

      I can can understand your feelings just by your words here, but My dear you are strong enough to go through this. That person was a temporary one, it will surely take time, but you have to be brave. And if you ever feel lonely feel free to contact your blogger friend.
      I will always cheer you up πŸ˜‚

      Hope you always stay cheerful and lovely.
      Remember no matter what happens you are your first love. β€οΈπŸ’œβ€οΈ

      To be honest my next poem is on ‘self love’ my dear πŸ€©πŸ€—
      Hope you will love it πŸ’Ÿ

      Have a smiling day ahead πŸ§‘πŸ˜ƒπŸŒ»

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  6. Aparna
    I can understand every words that you have written here. Each line portrays the painful fact that you have experienced. This happens with many. It seems that your relationship with friend has broken or became apart at an appropriate time. But for them who are in permanent relationship with family, have children and then they find that one partner is not trust worthy. This becomes a most unbearable situation. But due to so many obligations, that relationship goes on with broken trust. Life moves…. with unbearable pain.
    I wish you overcome old memories.

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    1. Thanks you so much Sir for appreciating my efforts to overcoming the hard time dealing with the situation when we are betrayed by a close friend, and parting ways with them can lead to breaking of trust. It somewhat become hard to trust anyone anymore.

      But the life must go on…
      Thanks once again sir for reading πŸ˜ŠπŸ™‚
      Have a great day ahead 😊
      🌻🌻

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      1. Yeah πŸ‘πŸ˜Œ
        Life has to move forward with better than ever. Don’t look back.
        Understand the true reality. True Self. It has infinite power. Realise that. These betrayal happens to the lucky ones to get a wonderful lesson. I got lessons and that lesson guided me to walk in the path of enlightenment. I am sure you will do lots of great work for the Mankind.
        Love the Mankind without expectations.
        Trust always, but also consider that trust can be broken again.
        You are a child. Today’s world is different. We are together here to share views. Few years back such scopes were not there.
        Lots of depressions took their lives even.
        We have to be smart. Life is beautiful πŸ‘πŸ˜ŠπŸ™
        Respect the life.
        God bless you with long healthy wealthy and peaceful life πŸŽπŸ™β€οΈ

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      2. Wonderful positive thought sir that betrayal happen to lucky ones for proper lessons of life..πŸ‘πŸ‘
        I am glad to have you as my constant supporter.

        Thanks a million for kind blessings πŸ˜ŠπŸ™‚
        You too Stay happy and smiling πŸ€—πŸ˜…

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      3. We all have come from a single source and will go back to the single source. When you will understand that everything visible are manifested objects and purely temporary including our bodies in this current life. Try to understand the Essence of your true Self and do your current duties whether mindful studies or job or businesses (I don’t know what do you do right now). Achieve your target and live with enormous Joy. You will see that you have no pain. I have seen that gain has given me pain. What we know as gain in this materialistic world is actually the beginning of pain. Therefore with the supposition that all these gain are purely temporary and may slip out of my hand, I will be in better position as far as state of mind is concerned. This I am saying from my life experiences. I wish a very good post with full of enthusiasm in its content. I wish everything best and optimum for you.
        If you get time, please read my post ” what is joy” at https://arunsingha.in
        Just go through πŸ‘
        Enjoy your days in this festival period. πŸ˜€πŸ‘πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸŽˆπŸ«πŸŽπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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      4. Thanks sir
        I will surely visit your post 😊
        And will try to learn new aspect of joy with your work πŸ˜πŸ˜…
        Sure sir Happy festive period 😊😁

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  7. This was beyond moving to me; this is one of the most important questions one can ask themselves, since as individuals who function in a sociaty filled with people, many people will come into your life and introduce various dynamics that can affect you, especailly if they are people that you are gong to be spending lost of time and energy with, especally if it’s to the extent that you and another (like a spouse for example), or others (mutual friends) developed a closeness with each other.

    We will all like to think that the good times will last but unfortunately various aspects of life, plus the fact that people can be so different and diverse in their way of thinking, not to mention the fact that in their own individual lives they are constantly dealing with different challanges,oppertunities and associations, often lead to less than ideal circumstances.

    In one sense this can be heartbreaking, but ironically in another sense you can learn from it and get a better idea of how close you really are to whome. I loved your poem and I also love how sometimes you give a bit of context about them before the poem commences. Awesome presentation Aparna βœοΈπŸ˜‚πŸ’•πŸ’•

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    1. Thanks will shorten the weight of the feeling, that I had when I was reading this 😁
      I am highly obliged by your point of view and my much more praisings πŸ€—

      It’s true that we need heart breaks to know about people who cares or pretends to care. 😌
      Thanks once again for reading β˜ΊοΈπŸŒ»πŸ’œ

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      1. Hahaha no problem, you are very welcome πŸ˜„πŸŒΉπŸ’•. I like that my support for you has eased a bit of the weight off of yor heart because you are someone I care about tremendously and it’s the least I could do from the other side of the screen from one friend to another πŸ€—β˜ΊοΈπŸ™.

        Yes your words are correct; heartbreaks do occur and it’s displeasing that in these times people really show their true colors; but stay strong and keep focused on what matters my freind πŸ€©πŸ’πŸ™Œ

        You are also welcome once more; i love reading you posts and comments haha πŸ’™πŸ˜πŸ’™

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      2. Hahaha absolutely; I value our communication and you have a marvelous way of communicating that is very refreshing and delightful, so I respect you greatly πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•.

        Thank you so much for wishing me a great day and please have a great day ahead aswell buddy πŸ‘πŸ˜‚

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      3. Yup πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

        I appreciate your encouragement and I will keep blogging. Incredible people like you have given ore more then enough reasons to keep on doing so haha

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